I feel like such a mean mom.
For the last two months I've been trying to move Avery into a twin bed in Rylee's room so that Avery's room will be available for the new baby. Avery has wanted nothing to do with Rylee's room or a twin bed, and I figured I still had time, so I didn't press the issue. But time is now running out, and Avery's fun habit of shaking her crib bars like a gorilla until screws fall out is losing its charm. So, instead of moving Avery to the bed, we brought the bed to Avery.
She cried and cried as she watched Chad take apart her crib, saying, "Bed! Bed!" We moved the twin bed from Rylee's room to hers, where I'm going to let her get used to it and then move it back to Rylee's room--with her in it, this time. Hopefully, the timing all works out and this process will be complete before mid-June.
A childproof doorknob and the promise of her pacifier got her to take a nap this afternoon. Unfortunately, I let my curiosity as to where she had fallen asleep--the floor or the bed--get the best of me and I accidentally woke her up while sneaking a peek through a crack in the door. She is the lightest sleeper ever! I was able to rock her back to sleep but couldn't risk the transfer, so I sat struggling to breathe with two babies pressed up against my lungs, in the rocking chair for about a half hour. I don't know why doctors don't let pregnant women ride roller coaster and stuff like that. I would think having toddlers kick and climb all over you is far more damaging to a fetus. I digress.
Anyway, with the nap behind us I thought we were in the clear for going to bed tonight. No such luck. She cried at the door for a long time before I gave in and rocked her for a few minutes. I feel so cruel! She is taking much longer to get used to this than Rylee did. To make myself feel better, I've decided to let her keep her "patzy!" (as she calls it, "pacifier" for the layman) as long as she wants. As long as it's in the confines of her bed, that is.
Okay, I was low on post ideas for today. Sorry.
Thursday, April 12, 2007
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I am really not looking forward to this stage with Jakson-good luck!
Ugh, I just took away May's binky - she always sucked in off to one side and it was pushing her right front teeth up and out, so I had to. She was THE BEST sleeper before - never cried, I could just put her down and walk out. Now she cries for about an hour and hardly sleeps in her nap anymore. Last night she woke up in the middle of the night - which she never does - and it took 3 hours for her to figure out how to get to sleep: by screaming herself to sleep. I just can't give it back to her, though! She'd look like some cartoon character with one tooth pointing one direction (down) and the other pointing another direction (poking out of her lip.) UGH. Why can't we make kids sleep, eat and poop? Those are the things that are most important and you can't make them do it. Good luck. Hopefully you can figure some kind of incentive out.
wow, i've never heard of a binky messing up a baby that young's teeth! how awful! i took rylee's binky away when she was 2. that's when she started waking up at 5:00 am every day. but at least she slept through the night. good thing you guys have dental connections :)
Oh, that is so sad! Poor Avery...I am sure eventually she'll get it down. It's hard to have to do grown up things, even I still think that sometimes! Good luck!
Poor Avery and poor you! Transitions are hard. I thought the bottle weaning was going to be the end of me and would've wimped out if my mom and pediatrician didn't make me do it. I can't imagine Luke out of a crib--he would have no idea what was going on. I remember being shocked that Rylee did so well so early. I think the second ones are in less of a rush to grow up. There's always the option of using Grandpa's cradle until Avery is ready--we did that with Ethan to give him a few more months before he had to share his room. Good luck!
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